
You’re often afraid to discuss the struggles you’re having as a mother because other Moms “seem” to have it together.
Or they pretend to and give you advice they need to follow as well.
That’s a common rule for advice giving. We give the advice that either worked for us or advice we need to hear too. The advice I give the most is valuable for me as well.
Here are a few things it’s important for you to understand about your own worth:



I remember posting an AHA about ADHD a few years ago and one of my followers wrote, “I’m surprised you didn’t know that already, blah, blah, how could you not know that, blah, blah.”
I responded, “Each of us has a first time for everything. This is mine, please let me have it.” She didn’t reply.

Learn to experience everything for the first time. Be an explorer instead of an expert.
You’ll experience far more self criticism when you “should’ve known” when the truth is, you don’t always know the right thing to do.
Whatever decision you make will teach you something valuable.
If you’re going to compare anything. Compare the results you want with the results you created. Reflect, Refine and Reengage.
You are always in process and that’s okay. It’s the process that refines you, not the goal.


