That’s one side of the experiential coin. But swing the pendulum the other way and you flip the coin to the side where empowerment lies.
How to flip the coin? Make a decision.
Decide that you’re going to act according to your desire to create your life not stand by and watch it fall apart.
Do something like making a list of things you’re grateful for, go for a walk, do some exercise, laugh.
Something that reminds you you can take action that creates an experience other than what you’re experiencing.
A major shift in your thinking, mood and your life can be put in motion with a single decision.